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Free Video Pastor Coaching Group
I’ve been silent for quite some time on this blog. It’s been quite a journey over the last 9 months, a journey mostly covered in...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 19, 20182 min read


Do This When You Have to Confront Your Leader
I recently made a leadership decision that was fraught with some amount of peril. Most good leadership decisions are. The truth is if...
Darrell Stetler II
Aug 30, 20172 min read


We’re hiring!
The church where I pastor in Oklahoma City is hiring a new pastoral position. Our church has been growing: We’re running 100, with a 9...
Darrell Stetler II
Jun 19, 20172 min read


How to Make a Portable Baptistry for a Small Church
Baptism is a beautiful moment as new Christians celebrate their transformation & new life in Christ… but what happens if you’re a small...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 16, 20172 min read


One Huge Key to a Pastor’s Emotional Survival
Being a pastor of a church can be emotionally exhausting. At times, it really does feel like riding an emotional roller coaster. In a...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 2, 20172 min read


Church Revitalization Coaching Session #3
This goal with this session was to make it inspiring as much as it is informative… A discussion of how to get your church over the hump...
Darrell Stetler II
Mar 21, 20171 min read


Lowering Your Sunday Morning Stress
Ray Stevens, the great musical comedian, once wrote a song called “Sunday Mornings.” Chaos, mayhem, panic and disorder Even worse when we...
Darrell Stetler II
Mar 5, 20172 min read


How to Reduce Pastoral Stress With Systems
I am OK with some kinds of stress. Performance stress is good for you, since it raises your awareness and sends adrenaline coursing...
Darrell Stetler II
Feb 26, 20171 min read


Changing Your Church Wisely
Everyone knows that change is “make or break” for leadership. The test of leadership isn’t how many people voted for you, or how many...
Darrell Stetler II
Feb 19, 20172 min read


Church Revitalization Coaching Session #4
Hey there, church leader! Thanks for being a part of Church Revitalization Coaching! This month, we’re talking about how to get ready...
Darrell Stetler II
Feb 15, 20171 min read


5 Minute Mentoring: Getting Permission To Make Changes
I remember when the professor stood in front of our class, and passed out copies of the 5 year vision plan of a young, visionary pastor...
Darrell Stetler II
Jan 29, 20172 min read


5 Minute Mentoring: Leading Change More Effectively
Leading change in a local church is a tough task. Just about any pastor has one of these stories: a needed change that crashed and...
Darrell Stetler II
Jan 22, 20172 min read


5 Minute Mentoring: The Time Management Matrix
When was the last time you felt like you had ENOUGH time? I’m guessing it was on the 12th of Never. Time management is one of the...
Darrell Stetler II
Jan 15, 20172 min read


5 Minute Mentoring: How to Share the Gospel
Hi, welcome to a new feature on the blog! 5 Minute Mentoring is a new feature brought to you by SermonSubscribe. It’s designed to be a...
Darrell Stetler II
Jan 8, 20172 min read


Church Revitalization Coaching Session #2
#2 – Thinking Like a Missionary Church Session Notes 3 Church Vision Series – ZIP file Thanks for taking this journey! Darrell
Darrell Stetler II
May 28, 20161 min read


Why I’m Taking a Break From My Blog
A quick announcement before I start today: If you haven’t taken my survey about your greatest frustrations and joys as a pastor, please...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 17, 20163 min read
How to Be More Creative
Do you think it’s possible to become more creative? Is creativity natural, or developed? Is it a limited commodity, and you’re just...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 13, 20163 min read


Nextdoor: The New Social Network You Must Check Out
If you’re a pastor of a church, social media can be a frustrating thing. You want to use social media to connect with people who might be...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 10, 20163 min read


A Pastor’s Most Strategic Day of the Week
What is the most strategic day of your week? Do you have one? Do you know why it is the most strategic? What is the most important...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 6, 20163 min read


Pastor, Here’s Why You Can’t Quit
If the stats are right, several pastors reading this are burned out and thinking of quitting… or at least wishing it could happen. The...
Darrell Stetler II
Apr 3, 20163 min read
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