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  • Darrell Stetler II

Why Willpower is Hard to Find

If you’re like me, you’ve struggled to MAKE yourself do things.  Even things you know will help your situation… they’re still hard.  But don’t despair! 

A better understanding of what willpower is, and what it does will help you learn how to increase it.
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To that end, here’s a life-altering thing I’m learning right now about my own willpower, captured in this week’s 5-Minute Mentoring Video.

One of my biggest regrets about the early years of my pastoral ministry is that I didn’t invest in a regular, paid coaching program for pastors.  While no one can ever say what “would have happened” I feel pretty confident that I’d be further up the road, my church would be better off, and I’d have skipped over some of the mistakes I’ve made.

If you’re a smaller church pastor, you know that not all coaching is created equal.  Some of it is more fitted for large churches with multiple staff, large budgets… churches that have approximately the same population in their bathroom as your sanctuary!

If you’d like to hear more about it, check out my Small Church Pastor Coaching Membership.  Here’s what’s included:

1. Video Coaching Class

One Unit per month is added, and members have access to the ENTIRE ARCHIVE of past topics.  Current and upcoming topics include:

  1. Creating An Outreach Culture

  2. Recruiting and Leading Volunteers

  3. Small Church Financial Leadership

  4. How to Follow Up on Guests

  5. Personal Spiritual Growth

  6. Lower Your Sunday Stress – Preaching Habits

  7. Personal Systems

  8. Marriage & Ministry

  9. Morning Routines

  10. Intentional Leadership

Each Unit includes a 30-60 minute video training, handouts, resources, and links to sermons you can preach on these topics in your own church.

2. Private video messaging group for Q&A!

I use the app Marco Polo for Q&A, and respond as quickly as possible to your further questions on any topic in the archive.

3. Done-For-You Resources

RESOURCES INCLUDE: * Complete Sermon Resource file – the best from 15 years of messages

* Graphic Design Templates:

  1. Outreach Invitation Card

  2. Guest Connection Card

  3. Church Brochure

  4. Plus tips on where to get them printed dirt cheap!

2 ebooks (including early release)

  1. 7 Steps to a Killer Guest Follow-Up System

  2. Top 9 Tech Tools I’m Using to Get More Done

40 Day Church Prayer and Fasting Campaign

  1. Video Messages

  2. daily texts

  3. Sign up sheets

  4. Social Media graphics

* Administrative File (Worship Program Swipe File, Sign-up Sheets)

* ALL 5 Minute Mentoring Videos before they are publicly posted.

(20 topics and counting! Personal time management, leading change, Lowering Sunday Stress, Sharing the Gospel, and many more!)

The Cost

I’m one of those guys who quickly scans what’s included, and goes to the bottom for the cost. 🙂

This $30/mo membership is packed with valuable information that is specifically tailored to the needs of small church pastors. Small Church pastors are incredibly important, but often do not receive the respect they deserve… and too often, they don’t respect themselves enough to invest in their leadership growth!

Invest in your ministry today, and get complete access to the library of small church coaching videos as well as an archive of sermons, documents, administrative helps, hours of recorded videos, and a helpful video messaging private group where you can ask further questions. Find your supportive community for small church pastors today!

My Coaching membership for small church pastors are available here:

My Guarantee:

If you don’t think it’s worth it, cancel in the first 14 days, and you’ll get your money back.  Zero risk, No Hassle.


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