Darrell Stetler II
How to Get More Done With Less Willpower
The bank teller yesterday laughed and called me OCD. (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) She said that because I pulled out my phone, looked at my budget and asked for $232 back in cash. And every week I get the same amount, in exactly the same denominations. All the tellers at my bank know.
I’ve been called (good-naturedly) “nerd” and a bunch of other things. But here’s the thing: I’m not OCD. I’m not that organized in a lot of ways. I’m not really nerd…… OK, I am a little nerdy.
But the truth is: most of what I do is not because I’m a super-organized, pocket-protector guy. In fact, I am rather distractable, and disorganized in a lot of ways. My wife & anyone else close to me knows.
How I discovered the power of systems
I think I first discovered the power of systems when I organized my folder system on my laptop so I can always find what I want quickly. That stayed in place even through the chaos. I have re-organized it a couple times, but I still use it 11 years later. It felt like the ONE PART of my life that was actually WORKING. I had started to discover the truth spoken by that great guru of personal productivity, Winnie the Pooh:
“Organization is what you do before you do something, so that when you do it, it’s not all mixed up.” – Winnie the Pooh
What Systems Are
Here’s what I mean by a system: A way of organizing information or doing work that is a) written down and b) repeatable.
Here’s what I discovered: Systems uphold and advance values. Systems are the things that make visions become reality.
We’ve all been there: We have a great conversation, read a great book, have a deep time of reflection, go to a great conference — and we connect in that moment with our deepest values. Things that resonate inside us. Then we forget. The notes never get turned into action. The conversation is forgotten in the rush of the “urgent.”
For a while I thought it was because the values weren’t real or intense enough. I thought the problem was motivation… As if I really didn’t hold those values deeply enough. You know the cruel self-talk: “If I REALLY valued my family, I’d…” “If I was serious about my health, I ought to…” “Obviously I just don’t care enough about my prayer life…”
Sometimes, this could be the case. But not always… maybe not even usually. I think it’s because we have a limited supply of willpower and brainpower (I’ll be writing on this in the future!). We can’t wake up every morning and get done the things that tug at our attention, and still create brand-new, never-before-thought-of ways to live out our deepest values! We just don’t have the margin in today’s fast paced world.
What if there was a way that required less thinking, less willpower, less motivation and got better results? What if you could think about it once, create a list, and then set a reminder? What if the mental maintenance on your values dropped by 50%?
I am starting to see this in my life — with systems.
What Systems Can Do
Systems have enabled me to:
Get dressed faster in the morning
Accomplish several things I value every single day
Improve my relationship with my wife
Start improving my health
Prepare speeches or sermons faster and more thoroughly
Raise 7 kids on limited income.
Eliminate money fights between my wife and I
Cut forgetfulness in my life in half (haven’t eliminated it yet…)
Decrease the stress on my limited willpower
Focus on what matters in the middle of too many options
In Part 2 of this series on systems, I will share a process for How to Create Systems In Your Work and Life.
What about you? What are some benefits you might reap in your life by installing systems?